The ongoing saga of being a ongoing father of two - one with autism and one who died for 20 minutes. From pre-birth, birth and through those difficult toddler years. It's definitely a life changing event going from singleton to parent.
Saturday, 11 October 2008
Aqua Tots
We're going again for another 10 or 11 weeks, until early December.
Something I didn't realise until Sue mentioned it was that everyone in the pool with their child was a dad. I guess that's what you expect for a Saturday class. Weekdays are strictly for mums.
Em has been in the pool a number of times before, so it didn't come as a shock to her. She seemed to have a good time and was eyeing up other babies and parents with her mega-watt smile.
When we were in Spain with Paul we were dunking Em under, but apparently we have to wait until week 4 at Aqua Tots to do that.
She'll be quite the pro.
Saturday, 29 March 2008
Getting to grips
The ups have pretty much been isolated to Emily sleeping loads. The downs obviously involve her awake-time activities, or should that be activity - feeding.
We assume she's going through another growth spurt as she's spending all her awake time suckling at the teat.
It's making Sue rather forlorn as she's merely a food conduit, and can't really enjoy Emily on any other level at the moment.
Me being dad, and feeling quite neutered not being able to help with the fooding, am trying to help out in other ways.
I took Em out for a stroll around the neighbourhood yesterday in the pram and sourced dinner and am doing laundry and nappy changes where I can.
Now that life is becoming a bit more routine with the baby (if that's possible yet), we're moving on to "phase two" activities, getting all the legal and paperwork stuff out of the way.
With Emily's registration last week, we can move on to getting her a passport and claiming for benefits and childhood credits. Also need to sort out a bank account so we can begin regular deposits into her education / PS3 / booze on 18th birthday / new car fund.
Managed to nab another cute pic of Emily. This time she's ready to go with her bluetooth headset sorted out!
Saturday, 15 March 2008
Bouncing
I've just run down to the car to retrieve the video camera. Even though it's a borrowed rover 100, Sue swears blind thieves will target it for our video camera.
Also erected a "baby on board" (something something Burt Ward) hanger in the window. NOW I feel like a father.
Sue's had some drip attachment jammed in her hand so the Syntocin can be administered. That should be soon I think.
Knackered
Sue is about to bounce on a birthing ball to try and move baby's head down. 1am brings another assessment and then we see if a drip is needed.
So tired.
